It's Groovy Girl:)! I hope you are all having a great week and an awesome day:) Don't let the problems of yesterday hinder your happiness today. I have come to learn that each day is a new day and that we have to make each day count, no matter what happens to us.
Well on to another subject that I really want to mention here in my blog post, that I think all people are familiar about, or if not then here are my own opinions on the bright side of being a single lady, and not worrying about having a boyfriend.
I think that in my own personal opinion it is much better to be single because you can do many things that you want to do on your own and do not have to think about "Will my boyfriend like doing the same activities that I like to do, yes or no?" I know that it is beautiful to have a guy by your side to share and do things with together but there are also guys who only want you to do things that they want and do not let you do what you want to do then a guy like that is not worth-being with because you have the freedom to do what you want. A guy cannot control you.
Being single is better because you do not have to worry about your appearance and the way you dress. I still do not understand and gets annoying sometimes for me to hear other girls say: "I have to look perfect for my boyfriend, or Wearing makeup is the only thing that I need for my boyfriend to like me." No! girls we do not need that right now! We need to be the controls of how we want to dress up and how we want to look. It would be extremely uncomfortable for me to be dress in a way that is not me; wearing too much makeup will also make me feel weird because I would not feel me.
Being single to me means waiting for the right guy to appear and not having to worry about the dangers of teen pregnancy, it means waiting for safe sex after marriage. Typing about all of this has made me remember of when I was in ninth grade summer school and took Health class, well we were learning about the dangers of teen pregnancy and how it is best to wait until marriage to have safe sex with the person you love for real and in the class they gave us this card that says that you will give it to the other special person you're going to marry in the future that guarantees you waited all these years to find that special someone to share your love with in a safe way.
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| The Abstinence til Marriage card, that I got in ninth grade. still amazing how I still have it. |
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